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Bounce back after romance scam
Unfortunately, the majority of romance scams are from men on women – not always, but certainly it is much more common.
I did end up speaking to someone whom I believe was grooming me about 15 years ago and although I had some suspicions, it wasn’t until I got charged for phoning what seemed like a UK number that I had enough. I did speak to the man and we had some quite pleasant chats, but something didn’t feel right.
However, I have had many clients who have been tricked regarding a potential romance, although fortunately none have lost significant amounts of money.
I have a different take on the situation as it seemed so strange that so many intelligent and smart women would get tricked. And there is a novel by Peter James “Dead at First Sight” that concurs with my belief.
As many of the romance scams operate out of Africa, the Africans do have a tool for which we in the Western World generally have no defence and that is that they use magic. According to Peter James, when a romance scam finds a victim, there is a group of people who do controlling magic on the victim which is why the victims say things like:-
- I don’t know what possessed me
- I wasn’t in my right mind
- I felt like I was in a trance
- They pulled the wool over my eyes
- I fell for it – hook, line and sinker
- I had tunnel vision
- I felt like I was under their spell
- It felt like I was being brainwashed
- They were in my head
- I felt like I was being swept away
- I didn’t recognize myself
- I felt like I was in a bad dream
- I was walking around like a zombie
- I was in the ‘ether’
- It was like being bamboozled
- I felt like I was being systematically dismantled
- I felt like I was in an interlocking trap
So, these are all the aspects that need dealing with:-
- Loss of money
- Loss of a regular close contact
- Loss of a fantasy future
- Feelings of shame
- Feelings of guilt
- Breaking of magic
- Cutting of cords
- Removal of trapping energy
I – Nicola have created bounce back packages which involve one-to-one sessions with me, group sessions and spiritual clearing prayers to support you.
The spiritual healing prayers suitable for healing/bouncing back from romance scams are:-
- Breaking of controlling magic
- Healing from shame
- Healing from guilt
- Forgiveness of self
- Lack of trust
- Lack of self-worth
- Healing disappointment