Whether you have split up from a marriage, a co-habiting relationship or any other kind of love relationship, it can really knock you off path in life.  And when there are children, pets, a home, joint business, finances and other aspects to take care of, it is not likely to be easy to deal with.

And often, we have our minds, bodies, hearts and souls all healing at a different pace or even pulling against each other.  And it is also very common for breakups to happen after a back and forth situation that could have gone on for months or even longer.

When you work with a therapist/healer/coach, it allows you to step outside of your situation, firstly to connect up with what you authentically want and secondly to find ways to disconnect and heal so that you can move forwards more easily in life.

And sometimes there is also a “point of no return” where no matter how hard either party has tried, the relationship was doomed.  And the partner who ends the relationship, often made the decision up to 2 years before they actually ended the relationship.  So the healing needs to include not just the break up but also the pain of disconnection that happened before the breakup.  And when there was another person involved, there is also the betrayal, the lack of trust and abandonment to be healed as well.