Attracting your soul mate/divine complement

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Attracting a soulmate requires a balance of self-discovery, emotional readiness and active engagement with the world.

Internal Alignment

Heal past trauma: Resolve old emotional wounds
Spiritually disconnect from past partners: energetically cut connections
Build self-love: Accept your flaws and strengths
Define your values: Know your core non-negotiables
Cultivate happiness alone: Be joyful to attract similar people
Practice presence: Stay present in your daily life

Behavioural Radiance

Live authentically: Drop masks and pretend versions of yourself
Express vulnerability: Share your true feelings safely
Maintain open body language: Smile and make frequent eye contact
Pursue genuine passions: Find hobbies that truly light you up
Radiate positive energy: Focus on gratitude and kindness

Practical Engagement

Expand social circles: Say yes to new invitations regularly
Join interest-based groups: Attend clubs, classes, or volunteer eventsy disconnect from past partners: energetically cut connections
Utilize intentional dating platforms: Fill profiles with honest, specific details
Ditch rigid checklists: Focus on how you feel around a soulmate, not just what they would look like
Clear physical space: Make room for someone in your life

Nicola has helped many clients find their soul mates and been invited to quite a number of weddings. However, there is also the concept of karmic soulmates – these are people who you have a strong connection with but the time spent with that person forces you to heal and grow and learn and you may not end up with them. And sometimes you need to have that connection first, to get you ready for meeting an easier and more compatible soul mate.